Thursday, November 6
Contributed by: Debbie Cohn
Yesterday, the "returnees" group of Anshe Emeth travellers stopped at Moshav Naama, a few kilometers north of Jericho in the Jordan Valley. Our bus pulled up to a small building, where soon a tanned woman wearing black pants and a black t-shirt arrived to open the door and invite us inside. We were told that her name is Liora, and she hastened to make us welcome, offering us cold drinks and fresh dates from the trees grown on the moshav. Some of us lingered outside on the patio in the shade, or looked around at the flowering bushes next to the building, sitting on the comfortable-looking couch and chairs around a low wooden table. We were told that we would come back after our moshav tour to meet again with Liora and hear the story of the cafe, which had a name on the outside in Hebrew: Guy-Li.
Relaxing outside the Guy-Li Cafe
Upon our return, we all entered the cafe to find the tables set with plates of pastries. Liora asked us what we wanted to drink, quickly serving cups of lemon tea and coffee as requested, while we all made ourselves comfortable. Then, Liora stood up to speak to us. There we sat, absolutely spellbound, listening to her Israeli-accented English as Liora, in honest, heartfelt, tragic and yet inspiring words, introduced us to her son, Guy. This is what she told us:
Liora and her husband, Yaakov Hason, are pioneering members of Moshave Naama. Liora briefly described life on the moshav, which is a small farming community. The moshavim in this area provide an element of security to the State of Israel, while at the same time growing all varieties of produce which reaches a worldwide market. Guy was her oldest son. Like all Israelis, he went into the army, and afterwards travelled. Liora described a day when she spoke to Guy on the phone--he was in Mongolia with his girlfriend at the time. She asked him what he thought he would do next with his life. He told her that he was coming home, and in fact would be there in 3 days. Guy said that he wanted to come back to the moshav and be a farmer.
Liora tried to dissuade him. She said to him, "Farming is a hard job. It is a thankless job. Most people don't appreciate what you do." Guy said, "No, this is what I want to do. I want to be a farmer." Liora suggested that perhaps he should consider going back to school, learning some more before coming back to the moshav. But no, Guy said, he wanted to come back to the moshav and live there. Three days later, he arrived home with his girlfriend, Lihi.
As Guy went to work on the moshav, Lihi asked him what she could do there. Guy noticed that there were a number of young people in the area, on other moshavim in the Jordan Valley, but when they had finished work for the day, there was no place to go and nothing for them to do. Guy decided that he and Lihi should open a place for the young people to gather in the evenings without having to travel far. Liora told us that Guy built the cafe entirely by himself. She wanted to help him, but he told her "No, ima, this is for young people--you do not have to help us." Liora helped anyway, even ducking down behind the counter so Guy wouldn't see her there. As she spoke, she gestured around the room, telling us that Guy had made everything there himself, just the way we were seeing it. The room is furnished with polished dark wooden tables and cushioned couches and chairs. There is a bar at one side, and a brown and orange beaded curtain hangs in a doorway. One wall is painted orange, the rest of the walls are white. The cafe is simple, yet welcoming. It feels like a sanctuary from the heat outside, the dry ground and the rugged terrain.
In June, 2006, Dubi Tal, the mayor of the Jordan Valley Regional Council, nailed the mezuzah to the door of the Guy-Li cafe, named after Guy and Lihi. Liora says that what followed was "two months of happiness." The cafe was filled every night with young people who came from all over the area to listen to music, talk, and relax. Guy saw the project which he spent so much time creating come to fulfillment, exactly as he had envisioned it.
On July 12, war broke out on the Lebanese border when Israel was attacked by Hezbullah. Guy called the army to find out why he had not been called up to help fight. They told him that they were not yet calling in reserves, but that he should wait. Soon after, the army called, and Guy gathered up his things to leave. His father drove him to the place where he was to be dropped off, but after saying goodbye, Yaakov found himself inexplicably driving back to his son again. "What are you doing here, Abba?" Guy wanted to know. Yaakov told him, "It was a mistake," and drove away a second time. Once again he found himself driving back to his son. Again he said that it was "a mistake", before driving away a third time.
A few weeks later, Guy's parents spoke to him on the phone. Guy told them to take care of the cafe, and to take care of Lihi. Liora told us, "It was the usual thing to say... take care of things. Nothing unusual." Then one day, Yaakov was working, when suddenly he stopped, and turned pale. The men working with him asked him, "What's wrong?" "I don't know," he answered. "I feel something has happened to my son." It was at just that moment, Liora says, that Guy was killed by a mortar in Lebanon. Guy died on the last day of the Second Lebanon War, on August 13, 2006, at the age of 23.
Liora shared her despair with us. At first, she said, she thought she just wanted to die too. Then she thought of her other children, and realized she had to live for them. And finally, she thought of the cafe that Guy had built with his own hands. Liora now runs the cafe as a living memorial to Guy, greeting guests and telling them about her son, and the Guy-Li Cafe.
So, Liora says, she stays. She wouldn't want to be any other place. "Life here can be hard," she admitted, "but this is my home. And this is important, because I think that no other place is loving Jews. Israel has to be here. And when I die, this is where you can find me. All I ask," she added, "is that you remember Guy, and remember his story."
We thanked Liora and quietly left Guy-Li Cafe, more than one of us wiping tears from our eyes. Silently honoring Guy for his life, and his death, knowing that his unhesitating willingness to protect his home was truly heroic. Recognizing that without young men such as Guy, Israel could not survive. And hoping that the day may come when a young man does not have to leave behind his loving parents, the work of his hands, and the happy sound of friends gathering in the evening after a long day, in order to go to war.